Since moving back to Europe, we've made it a habit to spend the Christmas holidays with my family in Finland. Every year we have also made a short trip to another country to spice it up. Choosing the destination is a challenge, though, because my wife's travel interests are somewhat different than mine. In my opinion, an ideal winter break includes lying on a beach under a parasol (located sufficiently close to the Equator) while enjoying a piña colada, and showcasing the extra kilos of prosperity I've earned around my waist over the years. Unfortunately my wife won't have any of that. For her, travelling is about accomplishments, and she's hell-bent on increasing her country count. She really wanted to pop her #40 by visiting the always delightful, warm and oh-so-lovable Russia. (Un)fortunately Mother Russia requires visas, and if you procrastinate long enough, you won't have enough time to get one. Therefore we decided to visit Vilnius, the capital of Lithuania, instead. My best chance of ever enjoying the Canary Islands is if Catalonia claims independence; then our trip to Barcelona wouldn't count as "Spain" any more.
I expected that Lithuania would be another Latvia with just a slightly different name. Quite obviously I was wrong with my ignorant assumption. Latvia was influenced by Germany and Sweden, while Lithuania was much closer to Poland. Lithuania has arguably tastier beer, but Latvia is much better in Ice Hockey. Whereas Riga and Latvia felt a bit intimidating, the first impression of Vilnius and Lithuania was more laid-back and down to earth. Vilnius might look sad in December slush, but it wasn't the city's fault that we had chosen the darkest month. We walked around a lot, but never felt afraid even if some parts of the city looked quite rough in all their post-Soviet glory. The locals tried to help us whenever we seemed lost (obviously I've never been lost, especially if asked, but thanks for the kindness anyway) and the younger generation spoke good English (to the extent that English seems to be the lingua franca even between the Baltic peoples). The prices are very affordable if you stay in a hostel and use the public transportation, and the price/quality ratio of food was exceptional.
We usually spend the Christmas eve with my sister and her family. This year, however, was quite unusual. My wife had invited her friend, along with the friend's sister, to spend the Christmas with us. It was a really international experience especially for my nephews, and the extra expertise in cooking and babysitting hopefully also helped my sister's burden in preparing the evening. I am not sure how much the friends regretted flying all the way from Germany to Finland though, when they were only rewarded with lousy weather and Finnish Christmas delicacies. Since there was no snow, Santa Claus got bogged down with his sled, so the Christmas presents just mysteriously materialised under the Christmas tree while we were dining. Those sneaky elves. Not seeing Santa was a disappointment, but probably also a relief for the boys since they didn't have to sing or sit on his lap.
After Christmas we headed to the Arctic North. Lapland is very special for me, in my opinion that place is just magical. We visited Lapland almost every year with my family when I was little. I have nothing but happy memories from our travels (except that one little incident when I was five and I tipped a full cup of boiling hot coffee on my auntie and we hurried to the hospital and she was in agony for months — sorry!). I loved the thrill of downhill skiing and the sense of accomplishment after a long day of cross country skiing, but what I really loved was the nature. It had been quite a while since the last visit, so I was glad I would get to go again. This time we shared a small but cozy cottage in a very international Korean-American-Swiss-Japanese-Finnish atmosphere with my wife and her friends. It was good to see so many foreign tourists in Lapland in general, I just wish that they enjoyed it as wholeheartedly as I did. After all, some people might be a bit disgruntled with the never-ending darkness and -40°C temperatures.